big same. I haven't noticed that from you, but my issue with it comes thru loud and clear to people. A few years ago I used to be very gentle and easygoing, now people say I can come across rude, aggressive, confrontational... I think I've just gotten numb and stopped caring what people think, but that's obviously no excuse for hurting people. it's weird because I feel a lot more mentally secure these days, but I still think I'm a sack of garbage so I guess that's how I act.Also, tips on not coming across as rude or aggressive? I tend to come off that way, and I don’t know how to fix it.